
Well, we can’t say that 2020 was a boring year, can you? Full of so many ups and many more downs. The year started actually quiet with only hints of what was to come.
We all know what happened and is still going on so going over it again would just be hitting yourself over the head a thousand times. So I want to focus on the now and preparing for the year to come.
We know that the coming year will begin with more lockdowns and restrictions no matter where you live. We know that many will and many will not take the vaccine for various reasons. We know that our way of life has changed and may never be the same in our life times. But that is okay. Change is good if you let it be.
As I have heard many times from several of my mentors and friends, this coming year and years in fact will be the time to start our inner work. The last few years many have focused so much on the outside, trying to change things that can not be changed without the strength of what lays inside. “You can’t give if you are empty”. I plan on focusing on the inner work we can do over this year through different tools that I have learned to use and continue to use to learn in my inner journey.
In order to start a journey, one needs to start removing any excess baggage that is not longer serving you. I have many of my mentors and teachers talk about this and believe that it is a great way to end the year and start a new.
With permission I have stolen the following from one of my mentors and her process, however other teachers have also mentioned and practice this process (maybe not in the same way but close to it)
A Cleansing Fire Ritual
(Stolen from my mentor Toni Taylor –Mojo Lifestyle FB page )
Step 1: Create and Prepare Your Ceremony Space
The first thing you want to do in preparation for your ceremony is to find a sacred space. This can be your living room, bedroom, or even outside under the stars by a fire pit. Select a space where you feel comfortable. Dim the lights or use candlelight if you’re indoors.
Step 2: Balance Your Space
You want to find a balance that works for you. The goal is to feel grounded and calm. To achieve this, try adding crystals or using essential oils.
Crystals have an innate ability to direct energy and reset your mind. Some great ones to use include:
Amazonite – Often referred to as the Stone of Hope or Courage, this blue-green stone helps to bring hope and success to new beginnings (something we could definitely use in 2021).
Black Kyanite – Possessing the same healing properties as its blue counterpart (cuts through fears and encourages honest communication), the black kyanite also helps to keep you grounded and ward off negative energy.
Clear Quartz – One of the most versatile stones, clear quartz helps to clear out negativity and provide strength and clarity.
Along with crystals, essential oils also offer comfort and guidance. Try the following essential oils to help in your healing process and spiritual new beginning:
Resin Oils – Frankincense and myrrh are fantastic healers. If you feel beaten up – physically and/or mentally – these resin oils help to heal wounds while promoting spiritual awareness.
Leaf Oils – This includes eucalyptus, peppermint, and spearmint are great for breathing in new life. They help to release leftover emotions that may be holding you down.
Root Oils – Just as the roots of a plant anchor it to the soil, root oils including ginger, Cedarwood, and cypress help to centre your Qi by moving energy through the body and offering stability and wisdom.
Step 3: Write Down What You Want to Release
On little slips of paper, write down the things you want to let go of. You should feel an emotional charge as soon as the pen hits the paper. You can go into detail about the items you are relinquishing or just list a word or two. These words represent the old wounds, unhealthy patterns, and negativity that you’re ridding your mind and body of.
Step 4: Take a Deep Breath and Prepare Your Mind
Read through each word or description one last time. Empty your mind and open your heart. Let the emotions flow as you prepare to release them.
Step 5: Ignite Each Paper One by One
Using a lighter, candle, or open flame, light the corner of each paper one at a time and drop it into a fire-proof bowl or fire pit. As you set each paper on fire, say aloud “I choose to release you now.” Imagine that the smoke is carrying your unwanted thoughts releasing you of them.
Step 6: Close Your Eyes and Reflect
After all papers and thoughts have been burned, close your eyes and meditate for a moment. Focus on what you have learned and accept closure as your past is cleansed.
You’re now ready to start allowing new positive and fulfilling experiences into your life without being affected by past negativity. You’re ready to start a new year with clear intentions and endless possibilities.
Toni Taylor, Mojo Coach
This is such a great way to release the new new, To add to above, with bright colour pens, write down what you intend to have in the new year, Things that you want to do, see, experience. And then meditate over them and put them away as you have asked the universe and it now knows what you want, just let it happen, give it the light to do so.
Catch my FB video where I go over the ritual with you.

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